Girls need to talk to feel better

A woman under stress is not immediately concerned with finding solutions to her problems but rather seeks relief by expressing herself. Agree?

Recently im reading this book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" by John Gray. Then i came across this sentence and i have to agree with this. I believe that many girls have been through this situation, when she is stress or upset, she talks about her feelings and problems to her partner.

She: I really don't understand how come this company can be so sexist? We did nothing wrong but we were the one who kena? WTF!!

He: Hmm... You actually don't need to care so much, you are just a part timer.

She: Part timer also human what, why can they just be abit fair and appreciate their workers?!!

He: You won't work for them forever, just don't bother so much.

She: I know i wont't work there forever, just very TL how come they wanna look down at girls?What the hell is girl got limitation on this freaking job? they never give us any chance to try also.

He: Then just quit the job la, since you so unhappy working there.

She: Owh gosh~ what am i goin to eat if i quit the job? I can't be jobless.

He: Then stop complaining.

She: I am not complaining now, i just wanna tell you what happened today.

He: I already told you the best solution is to ignore them and don't care so much. If you still wanna upset there what else can i do?

She: Okay, Fine!

He always assumes that she is asking for advice so she keep talking. So he offers some advice or solutions and he expect her to feel better. But end up she actually doesn't feel any better because she actually doesn't need the advice or solution at all. When she doesn't feel better, he feels unappreciated and impatient. So... at last, they argue.

Guys always don't understand what girls need. This is the answer....
Girls always talk about their problem even some times they know that there is nothing much to be done to solve the problem because they just need to talk to feel better. What they need is a good listener for her to express her feelings. And guys just need to be a good listener =)